Our 1st lesson at SA College was about cultural differences between Ukraine and United States, and we can experience culture shock. 15 years ago i had Roman attitude as like in Julius Caesar's saying "Veni, Vidi, Vici" (in English equivalent: i came, i saw, i conquered). So statements about disorientation, language barrier, technology gap, etc. was not taken seriously. As usually one who ignores teaching got to learn in painful way.
After week or so I was invited to Birthday Party to friends of my host family - Wayne and Rhonda Levy from Devine, Texas. Book with scenery pictures of Ukraine was my gift. We went to Texas Steakhouse and, with consideration that my gift is decent, i made more than decent order - steak, few shots of tequila, then margarita with beer for dessert.
Comments from Americans about rich Ukrainian didn't ring the warning bell. When at the end of Birthday Party i was ready to leave one of guests said that we have to wait for few moments to pay the bill. On my genuine question "What bill?" i heard for 1st time phrase that still occasionally can give me goosebumps - "We are Going Dutch". Term means that everybody pays for himself. In Ukraine when you go to Birthday Party guests are responsible only for gifts, but birthday person is responsible for food and drinks. So i naturally assumed that it is global rule and was ordering without expectations to pay. Experienced real culture shock when i had to pay for my meal more than was my monthly income back in Ukraine. Even worst thing was to learn that Cultural Differences lecture at San Antonio College covered restaurant traditions in USA and expectations for each guest to pay for himself.
After my American colleagues and host family learned about my culture shock from what immigrants from Netherlands brought to USA, rest of my stay in San Antonio, Texas i didn't pay a dime for dining out and new term was born "We Going Ukrainian!" - which implied whoever invites to restaurant pays the bill.
Today my project manager for implementation of Oracle e-Business Suite - Alexey Ivasyuk - celebrated birthday. Facebook greetings brought nostalgia to how we used to celebrate birthdays as Oracle Consultants
Oracle team at Sarmat, Donetsk, Ukraine |
- initiator of celebration (Birthday, Graduation Anniversary, Family Reunion, or any other occasion where participants are geographically spread) opens a tab at mobile app
- invites are sent via emails, text,or social and participation is recorded
- confirmed tab is pre-paid in bundle of alcohol, appetizers, or food
- every participant goes to local pre-approved by mobile app restaurant
- makes check-in to mobile app, post a toast (or best wishes, comments, etc.) and then can claim free drink with optional food
- posting picture is optional, but highly appreciated.
Comments, improvements of original idea are welcome, or critique is welcome.
Happy Birthday, Alexey!
p.s. You did good job by hiring me as Accounts Receivables consultant back in March 2003.
p.p.s. btw, Alexey managed development of amazing cloud based product RoC (Retail-on-Cloud) at De Novo. Let him know if you are small or medium business with need to run whole store software in the cloud. You going to love it, or your drink is on me.
copyright and disclaimer: all rights reserved and all free drinks promised above are subject of "Going Ukrainian!" mobile app development and successful funding.
Roman Havrylyak
12/28/2013